yay. first post. :) this is a post dedicated to TJ-THAHIRAH JAMALUDIN. did i spell it wrongly? forgive me in advance :P
regarding ur last post. u POINTED ME OUT to give some comments about the roller coaster theory of being in a relationship. this is some of my PROFESSIONAL replies: (LOL)
frankly, i rarely had "one day damn hapee one day damn emo" experience due to relationship matter. we did have a few major quarrel few times before but i guess its normal to have arguments with someone u spend alot of time with, as we all have different point of views and expectations sometimes. to have a safe and happy experience of the roller coaster ride, perhaps u can try and look into these things:)
1. he once told me, just treat it(relationship) as a spice, not a burden. (bonus info: that's how our relationship commenced:P )
for me, relationship is like sharing ur life with a soulmate.
2. try not to expect him/her to do sumtng, just wish, and if it didnt happen, let it go.
3. this is what i always hold on to: just go with the flow. dun force things out?
4. dun be to dependent on ur gf/bf. as in cant live without them for one second or one day. lead ur own life. but gotta share ur thoughts, experience and feelings with him/her, nvr try to hide sumtng or cheat.
5. a couple has to find their own comfortable ways to communicate. when i m emo and sumtimes its just so hard to tel him, i write protected posts on blog to let out my feelings. he will check and from there noe wat i m thking:)
6. i m not a super sensitive person, thus i wont have super depressed and emo season like some other girls have. mayb bcoz of the blur and clumsy personality. its a plus sumtimes. (TO THE PEOPLE OUT THERE. BLUR AND STUPID AND SLOW AND CLUMSY OSO GOT ITS BENEFITS ONE K.)
these are some of my preferred solutions to prevent puking in a roller coaster ride.
HAHA i think i m funny. LOL. pls dun whack me......ok i m syok sendiri. ignore pls
errrrrr. soooo... MISS TJ, DID I ANSWER UR QUESTIONS?
i m not that pro la. actually. XD I m just a normal girl who clumsily fell into a relationship. and. time flies... and i m stil with him?
i believe in 顺其自然=go with the flow:P
well. mayb this applies to girls oni. thanks to the guys in our class, i just realized, how boys really PLANNED and come out with TACTICS and TIMELINE and TARGETS to woo girls. it was quite AMAZING and disgusting.(eg. by xx/xx/10 i have to touch her hair) HAHA SOUNDS FAMILIAR HUH. U NOE WHO. okok dun kill me. mayb all these plannings are necessary. a girl like me who is just so passive and SHY just wouldnt understand. HAHA. good luck to the guys. SEE I WISHED U GUYS LUCK. especially to wanqing and seesern who have their TARGETS set. (others i duno la) ouch.
lastly, pls lemme share this out loud.
MISS TJ WANTS A TEDDY BEAR FROM A GUY:P
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LELONG LELONG I M RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS MISSION
P/S: i m not the only one who is in a relationship k. lin lee and THE SEXY SASHAHare in relationships too^^ miss tj ask them to write sumtng too!! :D:D
-zhini- :)